The Human Magnet Syndrome

The Codependent Narcissist Trap – Surviving Narcissistic Abuse

Author: Ross Rosenberg

This is the complete re-write of the first 2013 Human Magnet Syndrome book.

The Human Magnet Syndrome  provides a life-changing and brilliant explanation for why patient and sacrificing codependents fall head over heels in love with beautiful and exquisitely interesting selfish and self-centered narcissists.   Since the dawn of civilization, men and women have been magnetically and irresistibly drawn together into romantic relationships, not so much by what they see, feel and think, but more by invisible forces.

When individuals with healthy emotional backgrounds meet, the irresistible “love force” creates a sustainable, reciprocal and stable relationship.   Codependents and Pathological Narcissists are similarly enveloped in a seductive dreamlike state; however, it will later unfold into a painful “seesaw” of love, pain, hope and disappointment.   The soul mate of the codependent’s dreams will become the narcissist of their nightmares.   Readers will better understand why they, despite their dreams for true love, find themselves hopelessly and painfully in love with partners who hurt them.

The Human Magnet Syndrome  guides and inspires both the layman and the professional to break pathological attraction.

This is the second/updated Human Magnet Syndrome  book.  It is a complete re-write of the first, which was published in 2013.  This book represents the culmination of the last five years of thinking about and making discoveries about the Human Magnet Syndrome  topics.   While this book holds substantial value for helping both professionals and the general reader, it will appeal most to those who want to know more about the Human Magnet Syndrome and how it might impact their life.

The Human Magnet Syndrome is a universal phenomenon transcending culture, ethnicity, political persuasion, language, and many other real and artificial dividing distinctions. For this reason, I couldn’t be prouder that it has been translated into Spanish, French, Czech, and soon Russian and Chinese.

This book will help you understand and accept the painful truth about why you have remained loyal to people who profess their love for you, but who, at the same time, hurt you — over and over again.   It will guide you and hopefully help you recognize why you keep falling prey to the same empty promises that never come to fruition, and why your own happily ever after is nothing more than a revolving, disappointing delusion. You will also be compelled to admit the unthinkable: you are as much a victim of, as you are at fault for, your dysfunctional relationships.

Since knowledge is power and reading this will teach you what you need to know, expect to feel inspired and excited. This book will become an indispensable resource as you begin to learn why you keep falling in love with someone who, in the beginning, seems virtually perfect and, in an instant, becomes your lover, best friend, and confidant — your soulmate.   It will equally help you understand why these soulmates eventually take off their masks to reveal their harmful, and sometimes malignant and narcissistic, true selves.