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Parents Under the Influence
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Parents Under the Influence
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Parents Under the Influence
Author: Cécile David-Weill
Overview
How should we raise our children? It seems like a simple question, but in reality it’s complex and intimidating. Often, parents either repeat the patterns of their own upbringing or swing in the opposite direction—while relying on love and instinct to carry them through. Yet, as Cécile David-Weill explains, we are all “under the influence” of unresolved childhood emotions that confuse or undermine our best parenting intentions.
Drawing on her own parenting experiences, psychological insights, case studies, and even fiction, David-Weill provides a powerful framework for understanding and healing from the past in order to parent more effectively in the present. Both memoir and guide, this book offers an engaging, compassionate, and refreshing take on what it means to be a parent today.
Why You’ll Love It
- Blends memoir, psychology, and practical advice in a fresh, relatable voice.
- Explores how childhood experiences shape parenting behaviors—both helpful and harmful.
- Offers strategies to heal unresolved emotions and break negative cycles.
- Encourages a healthier, more joyful approach to raising children.
- Ideal for parents seeking both insight and inspiration.
Who It’s For
- Parents struggling with repeating harmful family patterns.
- Readers looking for a deeper psychological perspective on parenting.
- Caregivers interested in combining self-reflection with practical guidance.
- Fans of memoir-style parenting books that balance personal storytelling with universal lessons.
Reviews
“[David-Weill] has some sage advice for parents: Don’t trust your gut…What you really need is David-Weill’s latest book…the French-American writer and mom of three explores the unexpected challenges of parenting and offers hard-won advice on how to make raising successful children easier on parents and kids alike.”
— Town & Country
“A worthy read for parents of children of all ages. Easy-to-assimilate lessons on creating a healthy and respectful relationship with your child.”
— Kirkus Reviews
“A breezy yet thought-provoking look at family life and unintentional legacies.”
— Booklist
“With penetrating psychological insight, Cécile David-Weill traces the inborn and inherited errors of parenthood and explains how a raised consciousness can overcome those dangerous predispositions. Love is the prerequisite to good parenting but not its essence; parenting requires immense care and considerable self-knowledge. David-Weill draws on anecdote and scholarship to create a book that is gentle and often wise, a guide to parenting that is itself full of both affection and skill.”
— Andrew Solomon, author of The Noonday Demon and Far from the Tree
“This book is the beginning of a new oeuvre; not child psychology, more parent psychology. It is a beautifully wrought study of how children and parents relate, inspiring for its radical blend of the personally felt and the clinically observed.”
— Isaac Mizrahi, designer, cabaret performer, talk-show host, and author of I.M.
“Cécile David-Weill brings to this insightful, engaging study all the qualities she identifies as crucial to good parenting: compassion, humor, wisdom born of rigorous self-questioning, and an unwavering focus on what our children need the most. Parents Under the Influence is indispensable reading for all parents and caregivers who in the face of difficult family dynamics seek to establish happier, healthier relationships with their children.”
— Paul Romer, recipient of the 2018 Nobel Prize in Economics
“In her at once encyclopedic and utterly unpretentious, beautifully written book, Parents Under the Influence, Cécile David-Weill describes how and why we parent, and when and why we are most likely to make mistakes. She is neither academic nor proscriptive as she provides a passionate, deeply felt case for why parenting should be, at its best, a joy. Our one task as parents is to reckon with our own ‘influence’: our parents, our childhoods. As a mother, I am in awe of her ability to explode clichés and illuminate the essence of that most complex thing: raising another human being.”
— Lea Carpenter, author of Eleven Days and Red, White, Blue
“It is rare and refreshing to read a self-help book that captures the sophisticated nuance of human folly and the hazards of self-deception that parents face. Cécile David-Weill addresses day-to-day challenges of bringing up children as well as the generational transmission of parental anxieties and conflict with thoughtful reflection and advice. With psychological acumen and a rich descriptive style, she provides an invaluable offering for parents to take stock of what matters.”
— Joan Wheelis, MD, Harvard Medical School
Praise for The Suitors
“A charming peek behind the curtain of French high society as only the ultimate insider can. Cécile David-Weill’s novel is a delicious romp and I loved reading it!”
— Ina Garten, Barefoot Contessa
“Cécile David-Weill’s delightful novel of manners is a witty mix of wisdom and tongue-in-cheek humor touched with a decadent zest of Frenchiness. Irrésistible!”
— Tatiana de Rosnay, author of Sarah’s Key
“If you’ve ever wondered what Downton Abbey would be like if it were set in the South of France during our current century, then pick up this smart novel de charme immediately…The intimate, fascinating detail with which Cécile David-Weill describes this society—complete with seating charts and chauffeur pick-up schedules—is what elevates this book from a mere romp through old-money families of France into an intelligent, engaging study of a society that seems as if it should be extinct by now.”
— Oprah.com
“The Suitors sets out to be a farce and a frolic, but throughout there is an undertone of nostalgia and wistfulness for a disappearing way of life.”
— Wall Street Journal
“Deceptively charming and delightful, this novel by the French American David-Weill portrays class issues and changing mores with the kind of intelligent taste that would make the Ettinguers proud.”
— Library Journal
About the Author
Cécile David-Weill is French and American. She published her first novel, Crush, under the name Cécile de la Baume. The Suitors, her third novel, was published by Other Press in 2013. Until recently, she was a regular contributor to the French news magazine Le Point, with a column entitled “Letters from New York.” She was born in New York, where she currently lives.
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